Cotton, Depression and Just Daily Crap

We got Cotton our slightly over 1 year old Lab Retriever mix the day after me and Lana's birthday, he was a return dog, because the dogs where he was were beating him up. He is sweet dog. We were told he was housebroken.....after a few days I am thinking this may have only been partially true lol. He has accidents, mostly overnight. But over all he has been the little hyper addition that our family needed. Which is probably the only happy part of this post.....sigh. I am sick. I have sinus infection or something. I have been up off and on the last several nights with cramps in my lower legs and feet and this morning woke up blowing mostly blood from my nose....the joys of winter and being sick. That being said, you would think that Josh would take some initiative to try to take care of me....NO. I still have to get up for the kids, no matter how many times I am up at night, and trust me....he is not up as much as he says. The man sleeps. He did let the dog out this morning and clean up the mess he made....well half way anyway, I finished it when i got up, but then came back to bed and when I asked him to get up with Lana because I am lets face it fucking exhausted...."I dont want to" was my answer. I dont know what to do other than do it myself anymore. If I argue with him it turns into just that an all day arguement and I dont want that. And to be honest I normally dont mind him sleeping in.....its when I need to be the one that sleeps in that it upsets me. When I need him, he doesnt care, not that he cares any other time either really.....Hell I had surgery and yeah I bounced pretty well, but there were a couple days I needed him to get up, to help and I was flat told NO. I have cried so much I cant anymore. I just really dont know what to do......Right now I have to shower and take the girl to school, then the big bear to the Dr. for tests to figure out why he is so tired all the time suddenly.....like sleeping 12 hours tired. I am sure this post will continue later. Till then. ♥♥♥♥